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6 Places to Scatter Ashes

Deciding where to scatter ashes after death is very personal, and your choice can vary based on personal preferences, cultural or religious beliefs, and sentimental attachments. Here are six of the most common places to scatter ashes.

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Victoria Butler Victoria Butler

Grief, Online. To post or not to post, when someone dies.

Every year I wonder if I should post something today. And every year I feel ashamed when I feel the urge to post a picture of my friend on the day she died. Or her birthday. Or anytime I want to share her face with a world that is slowly forgetting her.

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Victoria Butler Victoria Butler

Secondary Grief: What is it, and how can we prevent it?

It’s easy to think that our grief is solely the pain of losing the person we cared for so deeply, but our grief is also the pain of subsequent losses resulting from the death. These can be referred to as “secondary losses,” not in the sense that their impact is secondary, but rather that they are a secondary result of the primary loss.

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Victoria Butler Victoria Butler

Holiday Grief

Grief does not take time off around the holidays. Instead it tends to be more intense, the constant pressure to be cheerful can be overwhelming when your heart is suffering. Now, add the high cost of living into the mix and December can be incredibly stressful. Many of us are struggling to get groceries—let alone prepare an elaborate holiday meal.

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